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Elephants, Penguins, Cheetahs, Oh My!

Spring Break has come and gone, differentiated from any other week in quarantine by its days gloriously-free from the schedule confines of daily learning plans. The kids loved playing together, and I enjoyed the lazy, slower starts to the days.

Sometimes it’s a challenge to find something that both adults and the kids enjoy doing together. Besides bike-riding around our neighborhood, working on puzzles, and eating yummy food together, we also discovered a few super fun and interesting Disney+ nature documentaries that kept all of us entertained.

Brave, intelligent elephants on a journey

First up was the newest one, Elephant, narrated by Meghan, Duchess of Sussex, OF COURSE! Guess whose suggestion that one was? 😉 Objectively, her narration did a great job bringing humor and compassion to the story, which follows a matriarchal family of African elephants as they make their way across the Kalahari Desert.

Who knew Adélie penguins could be so funny?

The second documentary we watched was about Adélie penguins because, well, they’re just so darn cute! This film spotlights a penguin named Steve, who goes on his first quest as an adult male, to build a nest, find a partner, and raise a family. Steve is voiced by Ed Helms, who infuses his character with lots of goofy relatability.

The kids enjoyed it overall, but there were a few more perilous situations than the Elephant doc had. There’s a crazy-strong wind snowstorm that buries some of the mama penguins as they’re protecting their eggs, including the mama that we’ve been following in the show. There is a real moment of anxiety as we assume that she doesn’t make it, which scared my little guy N. Thankfully, the mama ends up surviving and keeping her eggs alive too. Orca whales and leopard seals, both penguin predators, appear and create a sense of danger. We even see leopard seals hunt and catch a few young penguins, which made Syd pretty anxious and scared.

On the positive side, it’s fun and very silly at times, which made the kids LOL. They also loved learning about and watching the regurgitation feeding method between the parents and chicks. So much so that they spent the rest of the day, and some of the next, pretending to feed each other by regurgitation.

Majestic and fascinating mammals born in China

Next up is Born In China, which we’ve watched nearly half of so far. My first assumption was that it’s about pandas in China, but to my delight, the documentary also tells the story of snow leopards and golden snub-nosed monkeys, both also indigenous to China. And as you can see in the image above, the story very much focuses on the mama-child relationships of these species, which made it that much more sweet to watch on Mother’s Day. John Krasinski’s narration is also spot-on and the breathtaking scenery is a perfect escape for these times.

Potty Mouth

(Previously written post)

We’re in week four of potty training (end of June) and there’s been mostly progress, but enough setbacks/accidents to make me start doubting my decision to try this now.

Today, Syd said the cutest thing about her poop (“Cute” and “poop” in the same sentence? This is why I’m blogging about this and not posting on Facebook.). She looked into the potty after she stood up and said “turtle!” That particular poop did indeed look like a turtle swimming in some “water” (her pee). It’s fascinating what kids think of or associate, that I would never think as an adult. Looking at it more closely, though, I did have to admit that there was more than a passing resemblance of her poop to a turtle.

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It’s now been almost two months since we started training, and Syd’s doing well overall. I’ve come to realize that because she’s still quite young, our journey so far has taken the form of “two steps forward, one step back.” The beginning was bumpy, as I would get my hopes up and convince myself that we were *this close* to completing training, only to be greeted with multiple accidents several days in a row. And I fully acknowledge that I did not handle them in the most graceful or patient manner. Now, however, after some really good weeks followed by some not-so-good weeks, I’m more realistic about my expectations. I put less pressure on both of us to show immediate success, and this has been a very helpful change in direction for both of us – much more healthy and helpful, I like to think.

We’ve moved from the child-directed approach (waiting for Syd to let us know when she has to use the potty) to a more proactive strategy (gentle reminders and incentives for trying to potty every 2-3 hours), and while the new approach isn’t the most compatible with Syd’s independent spirit, it’s alleviating a lot of the stress and frustration – for both of us – that come with accidents. In due time, we’ll be able to shift back to following Sydney’s lead, as her development continues to grow, and I take great comfort in that. Plus, I’m putting a *lot* of confidence in that saying – “no one goes off to college in diapers.” I mean, it’s totally true, right??

I Couldn’t Have Said It Any Better

A mom in one of the Facebook groups I’m a member of recently linked to this honest and insightful article about one woman’s experiences as a stay-at-home mom. I could not have expressed my own experience any better or more eloquently. The author even articulates many feelings/thoughts about staying at home that I have subconsciously had but didn’t even realize. For example, I’m so relieved to know that I’m not alone in feeling like I have to paint a rosy picture to anyone who asks me “how’s it going?” And normal? There’s no such thing as “normal” or a “regular schedule” when you hang out with a toddler all day, everyday.

I especially appreciated that the author shared the lessons she’s learned, all of which I’ve also found to be uncannily true in my own foray into full-time stay-at-home mommyhood. I’m still working on fully accepting these lessons and applying them to myself (particularly the endlessly encouraging “Never Compare” wisdom), but every day with my daughter is better than the last, and that’s what anchors me through this adventure of parenthood.

 Julie holding 2mo Sydney

Julie holding 6mo Sydney

16mo Sydney hugging Julie

 

Thankful

As inspired and motivated as I was a month ago to maintain my new blog, it soon became clear to me how easy it would be to fall off the bandwagon. Like anything else that’s worth doing, it takes effort (surprise, surprise) and thought, both of which can be difficult to muster at the end of a busy day. That’s why I’m so thankful to have found a supportive group of friends who also blog and are passionate about photographing their lives. With just a few words, they have encouraged me to keep up my new hobby, and are living proof of its rewards.

At the end of last year, I started saying one thing that I’m thankful for as part of our family dinnertime routine. While there are tens of things we’re subconsciously grateful for everyday, it feels so much more concrete to vocalize it. It’s a way of thinking that I feel passionate about instilling in Sydney, and hopefully we are setting a strong example for her gratitude.

Today, I am thankful for the fire that my friends have lit under me to continue photographing and blogging life’s little moments!

…And I’m back!

It’s been nearly 13 years since I last blogged and I’m the first to admit my rustiness in this area. My previous blog existed during a grad school semester abroad in London, and it was an ideal way to share my experiences and thoughts with loved ones. Since then, though, distractions and procrastination (Who am I kidding? It’s been 95% procrastination.) have taken me far afield of writing for myself and simply for creative pleasure. A healthy dose of self-consciousness and my private nature have also kept me from further exploring a medium that is inherently public.

But now I’m back! Well, more like dipping my toe into the blogosphere. My intention this time around is to create a chronicle of our everyday life and capture the little moments that always seem to pass us by too quickly. I strive to find humor and gain insight from recording these gems, share them with loved ones, and if possible, inspire others in some small way to capture their little moments.