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Elephants, Penguins, Cheetahs, Oh My!

Spring Break has come and gone, differentiated from any other week in quarantine by its days gloriously-free from the schedule confines of daily learning plans. The kids loved playing together, and I enjoyed the lazy, slower starts to the days.

Sometimes it’s a challenge to find something that both adults and the kids enjoy doing together. Besides bike-riding around our neighborhood, working on puzzles, and eating yummy food together, we also discovered a few super fun and interesting Disney+ nature documentaries that kept all of us entertained.

Brave, intelligent elephants on a journey

First up was the newest one, Elephant, narrated by Meghan, Duchess of Sussex, OF COURSE! Guess whose suggestion that one was? 😉 Objectively, her narration did a great job bringing humor and compassion to the story, which follows a matriarchal family of African elephants as they make their way across the Kalahari Desert.

Who knew Adélie penguins could be so funny?

The second documentary we watched was about Adélie penguins because, well, they’re just so darn cute! This film spotlights a penguin named Steve, who goes on his first quest as an adult male, to build a nest, find a partner, and raise a family. Steve is voiced by Ed Helms, who infuses his character with lots of goofy relatability.

The kids enjoyed it overall, but there were a few more perilous situations than the Elephant doc had. There’s a crazy-strong wind snowstorm that buries some of the mama penguins as they’re protecting their eggs, including the mama that we’ve been following in the show. There is a real moment of anxiety as we assume that she doesn’t make it, which scared my little guy N. Thankfully, the mama ends up surviving and keeping her eggs alive too. Orca whales and leopard seals, both penguin predators, appear and create a sense of danger. We even see leopard seals hunt and catch a few young penguins, which made Syd pretty anxious and scared.

On the positive side, it’s fun and very silly at times, which made the kids LOL. They also loved learning about and watching the regurgitation feeding method between the parents and chicks. So much so that they spent the rest of the day, and some of the next, pretending to feed each other by regurgitation.

Majestic and fascinating mammals born in China

Next up is Born In China, which we’ve watched nearly half of so far. My first assumption was that it’s about pandas in China, but to my delight, the documentary also tells the story of snow leopards and golden snub-nosed monkeys, both also indigenous to China. And as you can see in the image above, the story very much focuses on the mama-child relationships of these species, which made it that much more sweet to watch on Mother’s Day. John Krasinski’s narration is also spot-on and the breathtaking scenery is a perfect escape for these times.

New Normal

Rainbow Drawing

So we’re smack in the middle of Week 4 of self-isolation at home, and fairly adjusted to our new normal, which goes something like this:

  • Mon-Fri @ home: Mom-school in session, (almost) all day, every day. Thankfully, Mom-school isn’t strict about alcohol.
  • Sat-Sun @ home: Family time all day, every day.

Sunny days are better. This Monday was an improvement over last Monday. And every day is different.

So far, the main thing I’ve learned from this experience is to take it one day at a time (literally!), and have no expectations for what any particular day will hold. For a Type A personality like myself, who loves to plan and schedule and be doing ALL the things, this experience has been akin to slamming on the brakes in the middle of the freeway. The skid marks sure weren’t pretty, but I guess we’re achieving the objective.

What’s been helping me:

  • Regular exercise, with the help of YouTube (a few fave channels have been: MadFit, Tracy Anderson for Goop here and here, and Sweaty Betty.
  • Weekly video chats with family and friends. I’ve mostly been using Zoom, which has a Gallery view that lets you see everyone on the call, and has fun reactions like clapping and thumbs-up. Their free version gives you 40 minutes before cutting off, but I’ve discovered that you can use the same link to re-start the chat. Little wins!
  • Supporting our local restaurants and enjoying meals that I didn’t have to cook.
  • Wine, wine, and more wine!

How are you doing out there? I hope that you are staying healthy and well.

New Year News

20131008-IMG_1168Well, it’s been quite a while since I last posted…an entire holiday season, as a matter of fact. Much, much has happened, and I’m excited to be back sharing my thoughts on all of it. The biggest news is that Syd has a baby brother now, 4.5 month old Nolan, whom she loves to cuddle and take care of.

For his part, Nolan is absolutely enamored of his big sis and I can already tell that she can do no wrong in his eyes. As tiring and overwhelming as the past few months have been adjusting to the biggest change in our family’s life, seeing my two babies interact with each other makes my heart so full to bursting with love and pride and happiness.

Sydney has really taken to the big sister/big girl mantle and wears it with great pride. Whenever I say “mama’s two babies,” she corrects me right away by saying “I not a baby. I big girl. I take care of Nolan, I take care of mama, I take care of Emma, I take care of daddy.” She never ceases to amaze me with her self-awareness and maturity.

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The Language of Love

Sydney’s language skills have exploded lately and she’s so expressive these days, I love it! Sure, I don’t quite understand about 25% of what she says, but it’s still so insanely cute that it doesn’t even matter. Plus, I know that I’ll be able to understand her fully soon enough and one day will probably wish that I didn’t understand *all* the words that come out of her mouth.

Right now, though, I want to relish in and record the preciousness of her vocabulary and pronunciation. In particular, there are those words that she slightly mispronounces or has a slightly different version of from the actual word. I know the experts advise us parents to repeat them back to our children in the correct pronunciation, but most of the time, I’m getting such a kick out of her toddler-pronunciation that I can’t bear to correct her.

Orange = “oranges”

Twinkle (as in “twinkle, twinkle, little star”) = “crinkle”

Paci = “faci”

Mermaid = “wormee”

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Potty Mouth

(Previously written post)

We’re in week four of potty training (end of June) and there’s been mostly progress, but enough setbacks/accidents to make me start doubting my decision to try this now.

Today, Syd said the cutest thing about her poop (“Cute” and “poop” in the same sentence? This is why I’m blogging about this and not posting on Facebook.). She looked into the potty after she stood up and said “turtle!” That particular poop did indeed look like a turtle swimming in some “water” (her pee). It’s fascinating what kids think of or associate, that I would never think as an adult. Looking at it more closely, though, I did have to admit that there was more than a passing resemblance of her poop to a turtle.

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It’s now been almost two months since we started training, and Syd’s doing well overall. I’ve come to realize that because she’s still quite young, our journey so far has taken the form of “two steps forward, one step back.” The beginning was bumpy, as I would get my hopes up and convince myself that we were *this close* to completing training, only to be greeted with multiple accidents several days in a row. And I fully acknowledge that I did not handle them in the most graceful or patient manner. Now, however, after some really good weeks followed by some not-so-good weeks, I’m more realistic about my expectations. I put less pressure on both of us to show immediate success, and this has been a very helpful change in direction for both of us – much more healthy and helpful, I like to think.

We’ve moved from the child-directed approach (waiting for Syd to let us know when she has to use the potty) to a more proactive strategy (gentle reminders and incentives for trying to potty every 2-3 hours), and while the new approach isn’t the most compatible with Syd’s independent spirit, it’s alleviating a lot of the stress and frustration – for both of us – that come with accidents. In due time, we’ll be able to shift back to following Sydney’s lead, as her development continues to grow, and I take great comfort in that. Plus, I’m putting a *lot* of confidence in that saying – “no one goes off to college in diapers.” I mean, it’s totally true, right??

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